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If you had to describe your ideal life, what would it look like?

What is an ideal life, would be my next question. Human nature would suggest that I should aspire to something  better.

I can’t  imagine anyone describing a life that was less good as ideal.But wishing for better might not be better. A micro ideal that would not rock the boat too much if it turned out to be less than ideal, sounds ideal.

But I have hundreds if not thousands of those.

Sometimes wishing for better is the enemy of good.

Putting the brakes on better, might well reveal that now is ideal.