I had a wordy struggle earlier this week. I was caring for a small person who is just under two. She has started to push boundaries and it is rather dull to keep saying no or suggesting that her behaviour is naughty. I came up with the word ‘sensible’ to express a better way of doing things.

With safety in mind the word worked, but the free spirit in me challenged myself, how sad that sensible needs to be applied to someone so young. But safety is essential.

Sensible says ‘do not stroke the bee’s bottom’ but most of us can empathise with the urge to do so.

Sensible choices are not always the most fun